The best tool you can use in communicating with parents is to keep talking to them, no matter what. Strong relationship (關(guān)系) depend heavily on keeping the lines of communication open. Try to talk about everyday things with your parents. That doesn’t mean telling them everything. In fact, turn the focus onto them for a change: Ask about their day — just as they do with you.

David, 16, is a senior school student. One evening, after he mentioned at dinner that he was thinking of trying out for the school play, his mom kept asking about it for weeks. And later, it also felt like she was getting too involved (參與) in something he wanted to do himself. Instead of telling his mom how he felt, David decided it would be easier not to tell her anything he was doing in the future.
A good way to get a parent to ask fewer questions is to offer some information on your own. This puts the communication in your hands. The more you keep a parent told about everyday things, the less they need to ask. Communicating everyday things has another advantage: It can show your parents that you’re responsible enough to make good decisions.
It won’t always be easy. You may get frustrated (受挫) at times. But try not to give up. It may take a bit for a parent who is used to making all the decisions to adjust (適合) to the independent-thinking person their child is becoming. Parents also don’t want to see their sons and daughters suffer (受苦) if the choices they make on their own aren’t the “right” ones. To many parents, it seems easier to step in and take control simply because they believe their years of experience put them in a better position to make decisions. If you feel that’s the case (情況) with your parents, talk to them about it.
小題1:The underlined part “turn the focus onto them” probably means ____.
A.talk the things about them
B.have a good time with them
C.show your thanks to them
D.do something good for them
小題2:In the third paragraph, you are advised to ____.
A.let your parents know everything about your daily life
B.tell your parents more information before you are asked
C.keep your parents asking you more questions of your things
D.be responsible to help your parents make good decisions
小題3:What causes parents to take control of children?
A.They find their children wrong.
B.They do well in almost everything.
C.They think they can make better decisions.
D.They are used to making choices for children.
小題4:The main idea of the passage is how to ____.
A.make decisions on your own
B.learn from your parents
C.think carefully for yourself
D.communicate with parents

小題1:A
小題2:B
小題3:C
小題4:D

試題分析:這篇短文講述的是,如果我們想與父母建立牢固的關(guān)系,我們就需要多和他們進(jìn)行交流。怎樣和父母交流,這篇短文的作者給了我們一些建議,如談?wù)勅粘I钪械氖虑椋约褐鲃?dòng)告訴他們更多的信息,以免他們追問等。
小題1:詞義猜測題。根據(jù)劃線的短語所在的句子以及上下文Try to talk about everyday things with your parents. That doesn’t mean telling them everything. In fact, turn the focus onto them for a change: Ask about their day — just as they do with you. 可知,作者建議我們要父母談?wù)勅粘I钪械氖虑,這個(gè)意思不是說告訴他們所有的事情。談?wù)勊麄兩钪械氖,如問問他們的這一天是怎么過的,就像他們問你的那樣。所以這個(gè)短語的意思是談?wù)勊麄兊氖虑椤9蔬xA。
小題2:細(xì)節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)短文第三段中A good way to get a parent to ask fewer questions is to offer some information on your own可知,作者說讓父母少問問題的一個(gè)好辦法就是主動(dòng)的告訴他們一些信息。也就是說,在父母提問之前,告訴他們更多的信息。故選B。
小題3:細(xì)節(jié)理解題。根據(jù)短文最后一段中To many parents, it seems easier to step in and take control simply because they believe their years of experience put them in a better position to make decisions.可知,對于很多父母而言,他們想要控制自己的孩子,僅僅是因?yàn)樗麄冇X得他們多年的經(jīng)驗(yàn)?zāi)茏屗麄冏龀龈玫臎Q定。故選C。
小題4:主旨大意題。這篇短文主要告訴我們和父母建立比較堅(jiān)固的關(guān)系,我們就需要多與他們交流,說什么都可以。所以作者對怎樣與父母交流給了我們一些建議。故應(yīng)該選D。A選項(xiàng)意為:怎樣做出自己的決定;B選項(xiàng)意為:怎樣向父母學(xué)習(xí);C選項(xiàng)意為:怎樣仔細(xì)的獨(dú)立思考。
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